Nothing else to do to get married

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friend called and said she wanted to get married. I Yaran endless, stammer out a long time before Congratulations, and then said with great emotion: you also so fast ah. Friends asked I, what have done, and no longer illusions about men, two people together to being married, what can?
I am speechless, I thought, too. Now love strictly in accordance with procedures of this society of fast rhythm style, feeling comes soon enough, to go pretty fast. In the past, we often hear experienced Sister warn: Do not fall in love is better than three years, or two people have the passion to tread on each other but also have lost the feeling of heart and desire, in all likelihood will be screwed, no over the end. for thinking and efficiency for the present, a friend had a bold prediction: that three times should be shortened to three years, that love time can not exceed one year, or hastily married or break up chic.
former love, both men and women usually requires a long gestation period to enter the state, the progress in hand, but also take away in January, let alone kissing and went to bed, not a year or so is very difficult to reach such a realm, it is an emotional age of chaos and shy, love is hard for a person to die of something, someone with a joke in your back and the Introduction you.
now love, became instant beverages and snack foods, like a person, only takes a minute to fall in love with a person, just an hour, decided favors someone, one day to settle out, ten minutes to meet the kiss, one month can go to bed, all the procedures are about 10 times more than the shortening of the past.
I remember one time, a friend and I know half the time to ask BF I, do not you two slept, like a statement of course I did not insult, the other opened his mouth, looked at me, look at the BF, a look of incredible, as if the two of us, like one of them is not normal, BF embarrassed fork On topic, embarrassed. shows the progress of love, age is no longer so green to match the.
the progress of love, really is growing rapidly, and love to grow to a certain extent, in addition to marriage, it is is idle, and when bored and want to find a little surprise and excitement, only to get married. The book says: men love a woman on the marriage when they think, and women in see through all the men are no longer on their illusions and they will despair to find a man to get married. I do not know if that is the case, if there are representatives, then I am not married, because the hearts of men still do a better fantasy ? unknown.
just know that friend and her husband to the present understanding of the wedding day from far, has only been 4,5 months of circumstances, they feel no other things to do, and then bet No matter, simply married the matter. I do not have any particular surprise or understand, I think they very good, certainly, can make a decision to marry, for each other, are an inescapable responsibility that requires courage, but also need to determination. I also do not have that courage to face the marriage, I still prefer the freedom of a person walking.